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Can you Abstain for 5 days?

Let's find out!

How Abstenence Works

  • Register or Sign in
  • Pay $2 to start.
  • Choose your challenges (2, 3, 5 days).
  • Stay accountable with A-Plus Mode rules.
  • Optionally enable character in settings for playful tracking.
  • Optionally share your progress.
  • Optionally join our Discord community for community support.

Abstenence

A pay to commit habit tracker that forces real discipline. Pay $2 upfront to start a 2, 3, or 5 day abstinence challenge — no resets allowed. Perfect for quitting porn, nail biting, alcohol, or building positive habits with Double Negative Challenges.

"At some point, it has to stop."

Why Does Abstenence Cost

Because free commitments are easy to ignore.

  • The $2 isn't a subscription.
  • it isn't a bet.
  • It's simply your commitment fee.

Pass: Your commitment fee helped you complete the challenge.
Fail: You lost the challenge and the commitment fee.

Why We Are Unique

A+ Mode

See A-Plus Mode

A-Plus Mode keeps you accountable with strict rules, no shortcuts, and no cheating.

  • No endless free trials – $2 keeps it serious, not disposable.
  • You can’t fake progress – Miss your window (form filling or record saving), it resets.
  • We believe in structure, not motivation.

Real Commitment - Abstenence doesn’t make it easy. It makes it real.

Your Journey, Your Browser

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Your challenge progress isn't sitting in a public profile or synced across your devices.

It is not accessible to anyone else, Not even us, because Abstenence is...

Private by design.

Learn how privacy works

Don't Know What to Abstain From?

You Can Abstain From...

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Chewing Your Nails
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Alcohol
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Gossiping
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Smoking
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Cursing
And Many More
And Many More

Want To Build Positive Habits Instead?

DOUBLE
NEGATIVE
CHALLENGE

See How it works

Frame your challenges as follows:

  • Reading – Abstain from not reading for 2 days.
  • Eating protein – Abstain from not eating protein for 3 days.
  • Going to the gym – Abstain from skipping the gym for 5 days.

Building Habits - With your commitment and A-Plus Mode, You can build any habit with Abstenence.

Be Our First Success Story

No fake reviews here, no manufactured social proof — just the challenge, waiting for someone to prove it works.

Complete your first challenge and we'll feature your story right here, with your permission.

There's a Story Behind Abstenence

Abstenence wasn't built in a boardroom. It came from a real struggle to quit a habit, and from watching people I love stay stuck in theirs. "At some point, it has to stop" isn't just a tagline — it's the decision that started this app.

Read My Story →
Founder of Abstenence

Prefer Offline For Your Abstinence Challenges

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Challenge Yourself, Abstain From Anything, And Be Happy.

All You have to do is Get Started

Frequently Asked Questions

Abstenence is a pay to commit discipline app that helps you build self control through short, high intensity challenges. You choose a habit or behavior to abstain from (or enforce), commit a small fee, and complete a 2, 3, or 5 day challenge. It’s designed to create real accountability and build discipline over time.

You lose your commitment fee and receive a FAIL record. No resets, no retries — this is real accountability. The goal is discipline, not comfort.

You earn a PASS record — proof that you followed through. Each pass builds your discipline, improves your stats, and strengthens your self control over time.

Your commitment fee pays for access to the high-stakes discipline framework. This fee is strictly non-refundable whether you PASS or FAIL your challenge. It is not a bet where you win money back; it is skin-in-the-game that forces you to take your self-control seriously.

No. Abstenence is designed to remove loopholes. You can’t edit or selectively delete records. What you do is what gets recorded.

A-Plus Mode is the default discipline system.
It removes shortcuts, forces intentional actions, and ensures your results are real. No passive tracking. No fake progress.

No. A-Plus Mode cannot be turned off.
If you want a more flexible version of the system, you can use the Abstenence Activity Book instead.

It’s a way to build good habits using abstinence.

Example: “Abstain from NOT reading for 2 days”
→ You must read every day or fail.

It removes excuses and makes action non-negotiable. To fully understand how this works, consider the following article: Understanding Double Negative Challenges

Yes. You can run multiple abstinence challenges on different devices or browsers. Each one is tracked independently.

Closing the tab logs you out, but your challenge progress remains.
However, clearing cookies, reinstalling your browser, or using certain privacy tools will erase your progress data.

Yes. Your challenge progress lives in your browser via cookies — we don't store it on our servers, and it isn't tracked or synced across devices. The only exceptions are your payment and consent records, which we're required to keep securely on our end to process payments and protect both of us in case of a dispute. We never sell your data or use third-party trackers.

Because free apps are easy to ignore.
When you commit money, the challenge becomes real.
Abstenence is built on one principle: discipline over dopamine.

You can conveniently access Abstenence without typing the URL, by following these steps...

on mobile:
click the three dots in the top right corner or the share icon in your browser and select "Add to Home Screen" or "Create Shortcut".

on desktop:
click the three dots in the top right corner of your browser, go to "Cast, save, and share" or "More tools", and select "Install page as app" or "Create shortcut".

This will install Abstenence as a standalone application on your mobile or desktop for easy access.

Still have questions?

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